Once again, talking about shit that I know nothing about. I don't know what it takes to be a good parent or lover, but my friend Russell Bailey and I can speculate... can't we? He has an interesting theory that you mustn't put your child first, but instead keep living your own life and set an example for them. Me on the other hand, my theory is that if you are too good of a parent your child will come out fucked up, so you kind of have to be a little awful to make a good person. Seems logical to me... also the proof is in the pudding, look at only children? Now look a person who was neglected as a child. Wait, maybe its inevitable, we are all fucked up. We also talk endlessly about food because we are vegetarians, which means we are more obsessed with food than your average person.